AT strategy (4)

Don't be serious
Or rather, don't be scared. Or don't concentrate. It doesn't matter really what I call it, as long as I keep myself from tightening, drawing in, turning inwards, closing up. Fear tightens and shortens, it makes you grab and hang on to whatever you've got, harmful as it may be. It causes you to focus on just one thing, blocking out everything else, leaving you unable to adequately address whatever changing situations may come your way.

It may sound funny, but it's true: getting out of the chair is among the most scary things I've ever done. Discovering that I was unable to let go and simply let my teacher take me out of the chair has literally sent me into a panic frenzy on more than one occasion. Afterwards, I always wondered how I'd let it come that far, what on earth made me feel that scared, and why I kept fighting it so hard. What could happen to me if I did let go? After all, it's just me and a chair, how hard could it be? There's no chasms, no jumping out of airplanes, no rollercoaster rides...except in my head.

When I notice the onset of such narrowing, for instance, in situations that involve singing (the 'I sound great in the bathroom, great during rehearsal, so why can't I sound great during performances?' issue), I physically broaden my view, simply by looking around and noticing my surroundings. And, very easy to do: I lift the corners of my mouth. It's just a tiny thing, but it makes it much easier to lengthen and widen if you do it. Give it a try, it's cool.

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Adolfo S wrote:

Thank you for your blog. I am a beginning student of the AT, and I have been feeling more than a little frustrated these last few days. It's been interesting reading your entries here, and it's a very nice site too.
Thursday 04 January 03:10

Maaike wrote:

Hi Adolfo,

Thanks for your message, and glad to be of help in some way. Is there anything in particular that bothers you?

AT can be quite frustrating at times; Patrick Macdonald even had a term for it: "Alexander's gloom", or the situation in which you can see what you're doing wrong, but don't yet have the proper 'means whereby' for doing it right.

Don't hesitate to bring up this kind of frustration with your teacher. He/she can probably re-assure you much better than I can, and perhaps adjust some points in the lesson to make things less frustrating.

All the best,

Maaike
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